I apologize to my readers. The Keeper of the Little Red Diary has been taking a break while serving as a consultant for the Carnival season in Memphis, Tennessee. Below you will find photos of Memphis’ oldest Carnival crew, Memphi, who celebrated the season in style by raising their glasses to this year’s theme “Return to Versailles.” It was such a delight to come up with ideas for this fabulous group of revelers. Here are some of the highlights and ideas for you to use when planning your own Marie Antoinette party.
Favorite Marie Antoinette Party Ideas:
1. Serve the cake first, at a seated dinner.
2. Chocolate snails make escargot that everyone can enjoy and they look clever on the table.
3. Encourage guests to create their own versions of the Marie Antoinette “Pouf” hairstyle.
4. Use sachets of lavender as favors (available online in bulk)
8. Encourage guests to decorate shoes similar to those worn by Marie Antoinette.
9. Dont forget the cheese course.
10. Candlelight, silver, and ribbon.
11. Valets costumed in 18th century livery are great for parking cars and opening doors.
12. Pick up porcelain figurines of 18th century gentlemen and ladies in antique malls and shops. Those made in “Occupied Japan” can be purchased for just a few dollars, and mimic Meissen figurines of the 18th century period. No one will know the difference and they work well as place card holders.
13. Wine, Champagne, Crepes, Macaroons!
Whenever I begin an image search for my “lovely library” I am always amazed at the copious amounts of masterful art and design material that man has created over the centuries. There once was a time when one must travel to Spain to view a finely embroidered flamenco skirt, or Provence, to observe the vibrant shade of blue that is created by rubbing woad on a farm-house shutter. From the elaborately designed pagodas of the Far East, to the sleek minimalism of a Karl Springer cocktail table, the world has become my oyster. And it can be just that without my having to leave my livingroom. The internet has opened more than just doors for me. It has given me the opportunity to become a backseat Auntie Mame. In the words of my favorite Broadway character, “Life’s a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death.” Not me…I have Wifi !
The Little Red Diary has been going strong since the end of September. It has been so much fun to curate the images that you see here. But now it is time to hear from you. Leave me a comment and let me know what your thoughts are, and what you would like to see. What do you loooove, and what did you hate? I really am interested. So, go ahead SPEAK UP!
- The Keeper of the Little Red Diary
Kentucky Derby goer? I have the inside scoop for you! London based milliner, Dillon Wallwork, has designed hats for a slew of famous Brits, including Queen Elizabeth, The Late Lady Diana, Kate Middleton and Jerri Hall( famous but not a Brit). Now, as a subscriber to The Little Red Diary, he would love to design one for you! Recently, I sat down with Dillon to talk about his creative childhood, and his professional life…
Kaki: I know that you came from a very creative family. Tell us about that and how your creativity was encouraged.
I was born in London in 1960, my parents both came from artistic/creative backgrounds
My father’s father was an industrial artist, and my father studied fine art at Goldsmith’s and specialized in Ceramics.
My mother’s mother was a school teacher and a fine needle-woman, was always sewing, making clothes for my sister and taught my mother to sew too.
Mother also was very talented with her hands, always busy with something on the go – patchwork, macrame, crochet, knitting, weaving, sewing, drawing and later on watercolors.
She met my father at teacher-training college – think she thought he was a bit bohemian and different from all the rest of the guys, it was the fifties.
We lived in London where my father and mother opened an art gallery, together with some friends.
My father bought a house in the country and soon we moved to Dorset and lived there, but visiting London to see friends and to go the theatre etc.
I was always asking my mother to draw for me, princesses and brides – I seem to have been obsessed with pretty pictures!
My sister and I always had a dressing up box and would act out plays, and part of the fun was making the costumes.
How spooky that I would end up working for brides and real-life Princesses!
After finishing school, it was just assumed I would go to art college, following in my sister’s footsteps.
she was doing Graphics and Illustration at Brighton. I went to Salisbury College of art where I completed an art foundation course.
I then studied Fashion Design, learning about pattern-cutting, design, draping on the stand, accessories and fashion illustration, which I loved.
In 1981 I left College and moved back to London where I really wanted to work as a fashion Illustrator – at that time computers were just beginning to be used for images and so the traditional method of drawing was out of mode.
I then met up with a girl who was at college with me and had gotten a job at the studio of Mitzi Lorenza trimming hats. I went along to see how it worked.
Kaki: I know that your specialized training must have taken years. At what point did you know that your craft had truly arrived?
Well, along I went – in the hope of employment, as I had always enjoyed accessorizing the outfits I had designed and hats interested me.
I got a job working in the ‘model’ workroom under the guidance of Madame Bryson, who had been trained in Paris under Christian Dior – I was in awe of this woman! – I had read and heard of Dior in “History of Fashion” at college, and now here I was meeting the very people that made it happen!.
The rest of the room was filled with an assortment of women from Poland, Hungary, France, England – they all had amazing stories to tell a young boy of 21 fresh out of college.
After spending a year there learning as much as I could from these wonderful women, I decided it was time to move on. Madame Bryson told me there were only really three good Milliners to work for, Philip Somerville, Freddie Fox and Graham Smith. Off I went and thought well if I don’t get a job with the first I would go to the next and so on. I knocked on the door at Philip Somerville Ltd. and I asked if there was a chance of a job – the rest is history.
Starting in the workroom, learning the trade at grass-roots level from very skilled milliners, I was able to gain experience and after time get promotion, working as Mr Somerville’s assistant being front of house, dealing with wholesale buyers and private clients – later on some very VIP customers.
In 2008 Phillip Somerville closed. Then in 2009, I opened a business in my own name. Having been in the trade for quarter of a century, I had confidence, experience, knowledge and contacts.
I had developed my own style of design together with the traditional methods, tweaked with modern twists and materials. Working with clients to their requirements, listening to them getting to know and understand their needs and tastes, together working with designers and designing hats to compliment the wearer and completing the outfit. My client is my showcase ‘they are an advert for me and my label’ so I want them to look good, feel confident, comfortable and happy – a majority of my clients return to me for their next special occasion hat and are happy to reccomend me to their family and friends.
In my years working in the millinery business I have met a variety of clients, from wholesale buyers – purchasing for large department stores or small designer boutiques. Working with these buyers I learned a lot about what sells and what customers want.
Working with private clients who come wanting something special for a weddings, bar mitzvahs, the races, etc. you have to know the occasion and type of person that goes to these events and the suitable outfit for the big day, it is also very important to give excellent customer service. I treat each of my customers as a VIP, and endeavour to make the whole experience from initial consultation to the unveiling an altogether pleasurable one.
I always advise people to have a full length mirror near the door and to check themselves in it head to toe, before facing the world outside!
Marlene Dietrich has always been a great influence on me. Since my childhood, when my father had one of her records, and on the cover was an image of her immaculate in the most beautiful beaded gown.
She was a style icon always wearing the most innovative hat, and dressing with such panache and elegance. (Ditto for Kaki!)
If you are considering the Derby this year, How incredible would it be to have a hat from a designer to the Royals? Dillon’s hats are all handmade and within your reach. Prices range from 250-795 pounds. Besides his fabulous gifts and talent, I adore him. He is such an inspiration to me, and I am honored to call him my friend.
Contact him at: http://www.dillonwallwork.co.uk/ From my own archive: I had to add this picture because I negotiated that frame for him at a small brocante in the South of France.
Wouldn’t it be nice to have an understanding of the English Peerage System as we delve into Jane Austen, Charles Dickens and Masterpiece Theater? Have you ever wondered about the difference between a Duke and a Baron? Well, I ‘ve done my best to outline it here for you as I understand it. My list is in order of rank from highest to lowest.
Sovereign: King, Queen, Prince, Princess
Duke: Usually close relatives of the King or Queen. Landed. (addressed as “Your Grace”)
Marquis: A nobleman of heraldry rank who is a large landholder. Traditionally his land was called the “march” due to it’s location somewhere along the border of the country. The Marquis is charged with the first line of defense against outside invaders. This gives him slight rank over a count. (addressed as Lord or Lady)
Earl/Count: A nobleman of heraldry rank who has large land holdings in the country’s interior. These land holdings are called “counties”. (addressed as Lord or Lady)
Viscount: Close advisors, deputies, vicars etc. to the Count. (addressed as Lord or Lady)
Baron: Friends of the king who manage land and tenants for the defense of the King. (addressed as Sir or Dame)
Knight: Bestowed as an honor of service. Traditionally were soldiers of some type. (addressed as Sir or Dame)
Esquire(Squire): Title for office such as sheriffs, barristers of the law, justices etc. (addressed as Sir or Dame)
Gentleman: Usually not nobility but with a family crest that shows ancestry.
Yeoman: Born a free man, a servant to a household of the nobility.
Peasant: A serf, manual laborer.
I stumbled upon the tumblr page “Frogs and Crowns” and fell in love, once again, with the dreams that I had as a little girl. I remember loving to read. And, in time, I began making up stories of my own, filled with castles, and queens and rides on the Orient Express, to exotic, far away places. My imagination, equipped with images from the books that I read, made up so much of who I was then…and I suppose ,had a great deal to do with who I have become. At 43 years old, I still believe in heroes and hold fast to the notion that fairy tales can indeed come true.